Online Dating/ How to contact the members for men.
The first step is to Wright a profile, to be real and honest about yourself; right a nice and short essay about yourself, and what you are looking for in the women (no negative remarks like “I do not want anyone with issues or hung ups”; then it is the time to look through the data base, find the possible matches through a search criteria, and the contact the members.
For men: when contact the women, don’t use the old pick up lines; the good idea to let the member know that you have read their profile and you are curios about this person. Give them a chance to see who you are as well, by reading your online profile.
If you have similar interests, ask about and share the similar topics; if you get positive responses back, and not just short answers, pursue your conversation further. See if she is available and is interested to meet you somewhere for a casual drink.
If she wants to talk more, about you, do not hesitate and say that you want to share that info when you meet her! Women feel comfortable to have some conversation with you; we need to hear “safe language” from you to know it is ok to go out with you (women know what I am talking about). So, talk to her, be honest but remember to not get to carry away; you can be sexy but not vulgar; you can be witty but not arrogant;
you can be funny but not sarcastic! I promise you will get somewhere with that! Just picture that this women is one of your friends (who you do not have to impress), and you are having a very friendly conversation.
We all had bad experiences with this online dating, but it doesn’t have to stop you from finding the right match!
Tanya Wiseman
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